Starting point
Write
$$ f(B_T)-f(B_0)
\sum_{i=0}^{N-1}\bigl(f(B_{t_{i+1}})-f(B_{t_i})\bigr). $$
Taylor expansion
For each increment,
$$ f(B_{t_{i+1}})-f(B_{t_i})
f’(B_{t_i})\Delta B_i + \frac12 f’’(B_{t_i})(\Delta B_i)^2 + O(|\Delta B_i|^3), $$
where
$$ \Delta B_i=B_{t_{i+1}}-B_{t_i}. $$What survives in the limit
- The first-order sum becomes the Ito integral
- The second-order sum survives because
- The third-order remainder disappears because it is of smaller order overall.
Core message
Ito formula is Taylor expansion plus the fact that Brownian quadratic variation does not vanish.